Does connecting through mediumship harm my loved one in spirit?

and some full moon reflections from this last week

Tears welled up in her eyes as this question that weighed heavily on her heart surfaced at the end of our session. She was deeply concerned that it was disrespectful in some way; that it would disturb their peace or harm her loved ones to connect through mediumship. She had clearly struggled with the decision to move forward with booking a session and now, after receiving loving connection, evidential messages and healing from them she needed to address this last concern.

This is not uncommon and when it came up this week I was inspired to share some clarity and perspective.

I have observed that this kind of question often has two parts, varying in intensity with each individual. The outer, more conscious part is worried about disrupting their loved one’s peace or disturbing them in some way. But there is often another, more subconscious part that is afraid. This part is often attempting to protect the person from pain and rejection. Likely this pattern has shown up in other ways in their lives and therefore they are not experiencing as much love, connection, fun, ease and abundance as they potentially could.

Here is my answer: NO. It is NOT harmful to our loved ones to connect with them through mediumship. It is, in fact quite the opposite in my experience! If you are feeling a pull, a tug, a longing, and or desire for connection with loved ones in spirit through mediumship, there is love and healing being offered. Those feelings are the INVITATION to reach out and RECEIVE. There is often healing needed for both sides. Your loved ones in spirit may sense that you are ready to evolve and they can help you release from stuck patterns and emotions in order to access more love in all its forms.

I hope this clarification helps those who have been craving yet resisting the love, resolution and healing they seek from loved ones in spirit. If you’re ready, you can book a session here.

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A story and reflection about this week’s pink full moon…

I’m not sure about you, but this week has been intense for me! I imagine the beautiful pink full moon has had something to do with it. I want to give a shout out to my spirit team for helping me stay grounded and connected. I managed to spill water on my computer a few days ago and we’ve had illness in the house. My son was up almost the whole night with an intense stomach bug this week (which meant we were up all night too). It feels like I’m navigating a stormy sea of overwhelming feelings which is unusual for me.

Can anyone relate?

Then something special happened. On Thursday at the grocery store, I stood in a long checkout line and a lovely man, who shared that he is 81 years old, stepped in line behind me, his bright eyes full of vitality and appreciation of life. He easily started up a conversation with me and I fell in love with his energy right away. We created an immediate, deep and unexpected connection. As he was starting in on a story from his life, I felt the energy shift around him and I knew something spirit-led and magical was going to unfold. He proceeded to recount how just before his first child was born in the 60s, something special happened. He had been watching television to pass the time, since husbands were sent away in those days when a mother was giving birth. He and his wife had chosen a female and male name since in those days they didn’t know the baby’s gender until birth. An advertisement came on and it stated the name they had chosen for a boy and clearly said, “Josh is coming”. Minutes later he got the call that they had a son. He was blown away at the timing and accuracy of the clear message. He lit up with excitement as he shared this story with me. He had no idea about the work I do.

People often gravitate toward telling stories like this to me, not knowing I am a medium. I remember when on a whale-watching tour a few years ago, the guide told us that right after her father passed, a resident whale she knew well, came up closer to the boat and leapt higher out of the water than ever before. She said she felt that was a message in honor of her father. She felt compelled to share that story even though she said she rarely talked about the experience. My friend and I just looked at each other and smiled.

I told my grocery checkout companion what I do and that this happens around me all the time, and his eyes lit up. He shared another astounding story of synchronicity and as he was doing so, I remembered that he said he needed to get back to his wife whom he was caretaking, so I ushered him in front of me in line. We exchanged such warmth in those short five minutes or so. With my eyes full of love, I told him that our conversation had made my day, and he said the same.

As I was thinking about this exchange after dropping my son off at school Friday morning (thankfully he was better), I felt flooded once again by the warmth of the connection I shared with my grocery store companion and how my spirit team must have been involved - it was just what I had needed in my overwhelmed, sleep-deprived state. During that thought, I looked up to see a 33323 license plate in front of me. Whoa! That’s 333 and 323 (my birthday) - my signs from my sprit teams which I take to mean: Hello! We love you! You're on the right path! We hear you! We’re here with you! Yes, we did that!

I have proceeded to see many triple digits since and even left a voice note for one of my coaching clients that was, I realized in delighted disbelief, exactly 3.23 minutes long. Amazing.

So again, thank you spirit team for bringing light, magic and connection in the midst of the tricky moments of life. And thank you full moon for shaking things up so we can release and renew again. Some patterns have surfaced into my awareness this week that I’m ready to shift out of and I am grateful for the ability to see them. How about you?

Love to all, Anna Blossom

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